Selves only get in the way. That’s why we are persons.
I'm sharing some final excepts from Jay Garfield's book, Losing Ourselves: Learning to Live Without a Self, because I liked what he had to say near the end of his book so much. What the world needs now is what the world has always needed: a recognition by people that we are interdependent, not independent. A belief in selves fosters a feeling of independence. A recognition that we are persons, not selves, fosters a feeling of interdependence. Here's how Garfield puts it. But there is a dark side to narrative as well. For one thing, as we saw in chapter…
